*flails* i can’t sleep help
Let’s just be clear about something:
- unintentional racism is still racist
- unintentional homophobia is still homophobic
- unintentional ableism is still ableist
- unintentional transphobia is still transphobic
Just because someone doesn’t realize that what they are saying is horrible doesn’t make it not horrible. if you say something unintentionally bigoted it does not mean that you get a free pass, it means that clearly you hold bigoted viewpoints even if you don’t realize it, and if you are actually interested in not being a douche nugget you will accept that you said something horrible and apologize for it without saying “well it’s okay that I said that thing because I didn’t realize what I was saying.”
i’ve never seen supernatural so my favourite thing to do is send upsetting supernatural posts to my boyfriend just to see him flail in agony
i don’t even know what i did wrong this time.
Nothing. You did nothing wrong and you are sweet and interesting and your writing is amazing and anyone trying to attack you is doing it only because they like to hurt people and you’re tonight’s target. You are so much better than them and you will be okay.
this might be the greatest weapon man has ever conceived.
when someone explains something to you for the 3rd time and you still dont get it so you kinda just